| So, you finally got the girl of your dreams. She's | | | | intensely guarantee that you are the sole object of |
| fine-looking and sexy. She's definitely a catch! Every | | | | her desire. |
| time you go out, other guys are checking her out. | | | | Male insecurity has also been known to directly |
| So, you hold her closer, have a protective arm | | | | correlate with a deficiency in the size of the male |
| around her, and cast steely "Don't you mess with my | | | | member. Many men are bothered that they are not |
| girlfriend" stares at the other guys. You closely watch | | | | big enough or they're not gonna please their ladies |
| her every move and feel a pang of jealousy and | | | | with their current size. This probably explains the |
| insecurity, even at times when it is not the least bit | | | | thriving and often lucrative business that is penis |
| warranted. You constantly call her up to check up on | | | | enlargement. |
| her or count the seconds before she answers your | | | | Another reason may be about money or resources. |
| call. You've been too paranoid too many times | | | | Many guys feel disdain, oftentimes envy, towards |
| whenever she says she's out with her girl friends or | | | | other men who are better off than themselves. With |
| co-workers, or if she's meeting up with a high school | | | | more money, you could probably spend lavish gifts |
| sweetheart or an ex-flame. You instantly erupt in | | | | for your girl; and with more presents, you think you |
| jealous rage at the mention of past loves. | | | | make yourself highly desirable and attractive. |
| You feel trapped by your insecurity and direct your | | | | Men, just like women, also need to be liked. They |
| energy to over protectiveness and jealousy instead. | | | | want to be respected, adored, and esteemed. They |
| So, you try to buy her time and attention by | | | | want to be feel important and special to someone. |
| overwhelming her with the prettiest flowers, | | | | They want to be loved and needed. |
| wonderful gifts, expensive dinners, and luxurious | | | | So, how would you rein in your insecurity and keep |
| holidays. You want to control and have the upper | | | | your jealousy in check? Take time to do a |
| hand in the relationship. You utilize the | | | | self-assessment. Improve your looks and learn new |
| possess-and-isolate tactic on her. You always make | | | | things. Go to the gym, join sports club, or enroll in |
| excuses for her to be always with you, or to be | | | | short courses like foreign languages, arts, or even |
| available at your beck and call. Her girl friends are | | | | acting. More importantly, is the measure of trust and |
| exasperated with you and upset at how possessive | | | | loyalty that you and your girl have for each other. |
| you are. | | | | Don't let your insecurities cloud your judgment and |
| So where does all this insecurity and jealousy spring | | | | ruin your relationships. Treat her with respect as |
| from? You may have bad experiences before | | | | much as you would want her to do the same for |
| regarding relationships and loyalty, and you ensure | | | | you. |
| that it doesn't ever happen again. In turn, you | | | | |